Complicated legacies aren’t anything new, and when huge cultural icons pass, their lives are examined and judgments are made. We all know people aren’t perfect. Nobody. We also know that grief and remembrance can be an incredibly painful and lethargic experience. In the day and age of social media, with everyone scrambling to get out the first think piece or the first introspective, the time given to the family and friends of those lost to mourn is reduced to seconds in between tweets, news stories, and Instagram tributes.